Getting Started Is The Toughest Part Of The Job
Getting Started Is The Toughest Part Of The Job
One of the most challenging things about starting on a new project, a goal or a task usually isn't the planning, the thinking about it and the mapping it out. It is the doing. Actually taking the first step is usually the most difficult part of any new endeavor.
I was reading a project managers manual and found it interesting that listed, as one of the reasons projects fail, is lack of implementation. In others words, not starting the project was a major cause of its failure. Such is with life; we can have the best intentions and plans, but if we never start, nothing will happen.
I have noticed that, when I start a new project, procrastination sets in. I remember when I was writing my dissertation my house was never cleaner. In fact, one day I was outside scrubbing down my kitchen garbage can with a toothbrush. My husband wanted to know what on earth I was doing. "I am avoiding working on my paper," I said. Getting started just seems to be the most challenging aspect of anything new.
My guess is one of the biggest reasons that starting is so challenging is the fear of the unknown. All the doubts and uncertainty can be overwhelming. Also fear of not doing it right, or even not knowing what to do. The cure for all of these fears is action. Action is the enemy of fear. The best thing to do when fear sets in is to take action, and the secret is any action will do. Just get moving and fear will move aside and the beginning will start.
Coaching
If getting started has you stunned with fear, take a deep breath and take one small action. Do something, anything. It doesn't matter what you do as long as you take action. Getting started is challenging, but once you do you will build momentum that will keep you going.
Another trick that might help you is to get an accountability partner. Someone you will report to from time to time on your progress. It sounds silly, but you are more likely to start and stick with what you promise someone else than just promising yourself. It is so easy to break a promise you make to you, but not as easy to do so when you have committed to a friend, a mentor or a coach. I have clients that hire me just for the accountability aspect, and it works.
Coaching Question
Are you ready to get started?
Coaching Challenge
This week make a commitment to get started on a goal, a task or a project you have been putting off. For additional support, enlist the help of a friend. Don't keep putting off what you want. Take the first step and the next one will be easier.
Daily Success Formula
Getting Started + Taking Action = The hardest part completed
Quotes
"Sometimes, people use age as a convenient excuse. 'I'm too old too start something new', or, 'I couldn't learn that at my age.' Other people, though, go on to achieve their greatest accomplishments in life in later years." Catherine Pulsifer
"Continuous effort -- not strength or intelligence -- is the key to unlocking our potential." Liane Cardes
"Start where you are." Edgar Cayce






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