Forget about competition

Greetings:
I had the best conversation today with my colleague Ralph Marston creator of The Daily Motivator. Some might question why I would consider Ralph a colleague and a friend and not a competitor. After all he does something very similar to me. Actually Ralph is the reason I took my ezine 365 Days of Coaching from free to fee. One of my subscribers emailed me to tell me about someone they knew that was doing what I was doing but charging for it. That someone was Ralph. I checked Ralph out and gave him a call and asked if he would help me transition my ezine to a fee based subscription. Without hesitation Ralph assisted me with the task. That was in 2001. Ever since then I periodically call Ralph just to catch up and see what he is up to. I consider Ralph a mentor. I appreciate that he has accomplished what I would like to. I always learn from Ralph and he is generous in sharing what he knows. I don't see Ralph as a competitor, I see him as a role model.
Another good friend of mine is someone that might be considered a competitor however I see her as a great collaborator. Alyson Stanfield is the owner of Artbizcoach.com. Alyson does something similar to me however her target market is artist. Alyson is the reason I created a blog. She kept telling me of all the benefits of having a blog and assisted me in getting my blog up and rolling. I have to say I didn't think much of the idea of having a blog however I am so glad I followed Alyson's advice. I love blogging now and find it a great way to share my thoughts, ideas and advice with the world in a more casual way than 365 Days of Coaching. Alyson is a great person to have on my team and although what we do is similar, we support each other in growing our businesses.
My dear friend Cookie Tuminello, owner of Success Source, is another great example of turning someone that might be considered a competitor into a co-creator. Cookie and I are both coaches and we do very similar things. However Cookie and I are MasterMind partners and meet regularly to brainstorm ideas for our businesses. Cookie is a long time subscriber of 365 Days of Coaching and I look forward to my Monday Morning Coffee with Cookie ezine every week. We understand the concept that all ships rise with the tide.
In the book The Science of Getting Rich the author Wallace D. Wattles explains, "You must get rid of the thought of competition. You are to create, not to compete for what is already created. You do not have to take anything away from anyone. You do not have to drive sharp bargains. You do not have to cheat or to take advantage. You do not need to let anyone work for you for less that he earns.
You do not have to covet the property of others or to look at it with wishful eyes. No one have anything of which you cannot have the same. And, you can have it without taking what he has away from him.
You are to become a creator, not a competitor."
When I was in corporate America the concept of competition was fierce. People guarded what they knew and didn't go out of their way to help one another. It was every person for themselves.
I love what Zig Ziggler says about helping others. He says you can get what you want if you just help enough people get what they want.
Here's to taking action,
Rachelle















