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Published by Rachelle Disbennett-Lee
Saturday, December 29, 2001
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The good news about being
human is that we are not one-dimensional. We have the
ability to experience life on many levels and in many
ways. Unfortunately, we can become so overwhelmed with
so much to do that we miss out on all the ways we can
enjoy what is happening around us.
To experience at a deeper
level, we need to be conscience of what is happening around
us. Don't just see what is happening really look. Notice
the nuances and subtly of people and things around you.
When we really take the time, we will see things that
we would miss by not being aware.
Don't just listen with your
ears to what people say; listen with your heart and soul.
Open yourself to listen at a deep level, eliminate distractions,
and silence your inner voice. If you are face to face
with the person, watch them as they speak. Not just what
people say, but how they say it, and what they are doing
when they say it can provide many clues as to what is
really going on for them.
Renew your sense of connection
with the world around you by becoming aware of your surroundings
and the people in it. Don't just be part of what is happening
experience what is happening. Take it all in and enjoy
the complexity of the interactions between others and
yourself. There is so much going on all the time that
if we are not aware, we will miss the deeper meaning and
the opportunity to relate at a deeper level.
Coaching
There are levels of awareness
and most people operate at the first or second level.
Just skimming the surface of what is really happening.
If we are aware and willing, we can connect with our surroundings
and the people in them at a much deeper level. There is
a lot we can learn simply by observing not only what is
going on, but also how it is going on. What is the energy
in the room like, what are people doing and what are they
not saying? All of this can be missed if we are simply
working from a surface level.
Be aware. Observe. Give yourself
the opportunity to tune into what is happening around
you. Renew your senses. Open up your eyes, ears, heart,
and soul to your surroundings and connect with your life
in a more meaningful way.
How can you renew your senses?
Daily Success
Formula
Observation + Openness
+ Awareness = Renewal of Senses
Quotes
"Everyone hears what
you say. Friends listen to what you say. Best friends
listen to what you don't say." Anonymous
"Once you learn to
see, not just look and to actually hear, not just listen,
you are destined to visualize your dreams." Anonymous